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Hey guys,Anyone heard from Dorje since the site went back up?I think he was around last Friday then nada.He's probably out there enjoying the real world,but in "our thing " you never know.So if anyone has had any contact with him please let me know.Otherwise I'm going to try and ring him again.Goddam time difference makes phone calls a bitch.I got his answer machine last time and I hate answer machines with a passion.Fingers crossed all is well with him.
vaxn8
10-25-2006, 11:47 AM
It said he was on yesterday at some point, I forget what time, I copied it in his long thread. Today, it has him as last on at 6:00 AM.
Last Activity: 6 Hours Ago 05:59 AM
I don't know if it's him or not, but someone is logging on as him.
It said he was on yesterday at some point, I forget what time, I copied it in his long thread. Today, it has him as last on at 6:00 AM.
Last Activity: 6 Hours Ago 05:59 AM
I don't know if it's him or not, but someone is logging on as him.
Doesn't seem to have made many,if any posts.Strange.I guess all will be revealed.Thanks Vaxn8.
vaxn8
10-25-2006, 12:50 PM
I mentioned this yesterday as well, but maybe he's low or out of drugs/meds. I don't usually post much if at all when running really low. The past week I've probably posted half of what I usually do. When I'm totally out, I barely bother reading much either. Hope he'll at least let someone know if he is ok or not. Over a month ago, I had a thread about kdreimiller who used to be around here and who I knew, he's still missing, haven't heard a word about him either.
madnesscult
10-25-2006, 01:26 PM
I mentioned this yesterday as well, but maybe he's low or out of drugs/meds. I don't usually post much if at all when running really low. The past week I've probably posted half of what I usually do. When I'm totally out, I barely bother reading much either. Hope he'll at least let someone know if he is ok or not. Over a month ago, I had a thread about kdreimiller who used to be around here and who I knew, he's still missing, haven't heard a word about him either.
It's funny, but I actually still go on here quite a bit when I'm not feeling good. I actually found this site when I was trying to detox (ultimately unsuccessful)...but yeah, it sucks when people disappear...you'd like to think that they got clean or something and are purposefully avoiding the site (because I know that when I'm feeling shitty, this site makes me want some opies even more), but always fear that something bad has happened...
kyuss
10-25-2006, 01:49 PM
he'll be back
with stories and treats
we'll sit around the campfire
and roast the goat meat
with our bellies full
and our minds flying high
we'll howl at the moon
and explore the Universal Mind
I got his answerphone yesterday and told him we were worried.I don't want to bug him,but I'll try again.Goddam time difference makes it hard.
How long should one wait in cyberspace before worrying?
vaxn8
10-25-2006, 02:33 PM
Personally, I'm less worried about him than kd, since he is at least logging in. Unless some of you know that someone who lives with him logs in as him or something weird like that. I would guess he just doesn't feel like talking. If there was no sign of him, I'd be more concerned. If you left a message, that's about all you can do right now. Hopefully he'll listen to it and at least let people know if he is ok or not.
vaxn8
10-25-2006, 02:36 PM
It's funny, but I actually still go on here quite a bit when I'm not feeling good. I actually found this site when I was trying to detox (ultimately unsuccessful)...but yeah, it sucks when people disappear...you'd like to think that they got clean or something and are purposefully avoiding the site (because I know that when I'm feeling shitty, this site makes me want some opies even more), but always fear that something bad has happened...
I don't know how you can do it. For me it takes effort to lay in bed and do nothing! I do totally stop eating a day or two before if i know it's going to happen and I don't even try to eat or drink anything during it, so I'm sure that makes it somewhat worse. In my thinking though, it seems like if i take nothing in, less will have to come out! I don't know that it makes a difference, but I just can't force myself to even get up and get anything even if i wanted it!
Personally, I'm less worried about him than kd, since he is at least logging in. Unless some of you know that someone who lives with him logs in as him or something weird like that. I would guess he just doesn't feel like talking. If there was no sign of him, I'd be more concerned. If you left a message, that's about all you can do right now. Hopefully he'll listen to it and at least let people know if he is ok or not.
Sure Vax you're right.Hope KD is OK as well.I guess we'll have to wait with our fingers crossed.
vaxn8
10-25-2006, 03:00 PM
The more I think about it, I'm glad you brought this up as a topic. We've seen this happen several times lately and sometimes the person is ok and just doesn't feel like posting, other time they're unable to. It's kind of a good reminder to all of us that post regularily... i.e. if you're not going to be on for some reason or just don't feel like dealing with the world, let someone know or make a thread so we don't worry. It's wierd how close you can get to people you haven't met, but it happens. I know next time I'm going to disappear, I'll make sure to let you guys know what is up! I really wouldn't have thought much about it before, but before I was always in at least phone contact with kd, so if anyone would have asked, he would have known i was at least living or what was up.
Ragdoll
10-26-2006, 02:33 AM
I feel terrible about Dorje's sudden disappearance. I last heard from him Saturday, I believe, then it was as though he fell off the earth. I realise I haven't known him for long at all, but he doesn't seem like the kind to just disappear...especially with his our dreamers post going on. I'm not at all sure that the person logging in lately is Dorje, by the way.
Nick, I understand how you feel about not wanting to bug him, but honestly, I feel very odd about this sudden Dorje void. I suspect that something has gone odd and wrong. So please keep trying to make contact.
Kyuss, that's a beautiful one.
I feel terrible about Dorje's sudden disappearance. I last heard from him Saturday, I believe, then it was as though he fell off the earth. I realise I haven't known him for long at all, but he doesn't seem like the kind to just disappear...especially with his our dreamers post going on. I'm not at all sure that the person logging in lately is Dorje, by the way.
Nick, I understand how you feel about not wanting to bug him, but honestly, I feel very odd about this sudden Dorje void. I suspect that something has gone odd and wrong. So please keep trying to make contact.
Kyuss, that's a beautiful one.
Tried again yesterday and got that goddam answerphone again.I know someone has logged on as Dorje,but why no posts?I left I message saying we missed him and are getting worried.
I'll keep trying to contact him.I'm starting to think you're right Rags,something strange has happened.I doubt he suddenly found jesus while on the deep nod,so we'll see.
I have work contact details,but I REALLY don't want to phone his work,for obvious reasons,but will do if all else fails.
vaxn8
10-26-2006, 07:41 AM
Nick- if he gave you his work number he must be ok with getting calls there. It wouldn't hurt to call and leave him a message if he's not answering there either. That was how I found out somethng was seriously wrong with kd- he wasn't answering at work and later found out he wasn't working there anymore.
kyuss
10-26-2006, 07:50 AM
This is really
starting to worry me.
devilsdrug
10-26-2006, 07:57 AM
ah that old fukker just ran out of too much fun that was a long birthday party he was on, prolly on the r and r
Ragdoll
10-26-2006, 03:53 PM
Nick, please do telephone his work. If I knew him a bit better than I do, I would call him there, but I feel a bit odd about doing so this early on in our friendship.
In this case, I feel something is very odd because Dorje and I were communicating one hour; the next hour, he disappeared. Being an egocentric human, I was concerned that I had said "something wrong". But by now, almost a full week, I doubt our Dear Doctor Doja is still reeling from something I might have said. So.... ?????? :(
Nick, please do telephone his work. If I knew him a bit better than I do, I would call him there, but I feel a bit odd about doing so this early on in our friendship.
In this case, I feel something is very odd because Dorje and I were communicating one hour; the next hour, he disappeared. Being an egocentric human, I was concerned that I had said "something wrong". But by now, almost a full week, I doubt our Dear Doctor Doja is still reeling from something I might have said. So.... ?????? :(
I hear this sister Rags,I'm going to screw my courage up and phone him at work tomorrow.I hate phoning people at work,but with the time difference I have no choice.
I know someone loged in as Dorje yesterday,but why no posts?Even after I left a message saying we were worried.I'm getting more and more worried.
P.S. Dorje if you read this let us know you're ok.I don't find your answeringphone very reassuring.PM me or someone else or e mail me direct.Fingers still firmly crossed.
Ragdoll
10-26-2006, 06:37 PM
I know what you mean...I hate telephoning folks at work, too. I feel bad. I wish I could help you out....
I sent you a PM, by the way.
~Rags
I know what you mean...I hate telephoning folks at work, too. I feel bad. I wish I could help you out....
I sent you a PM, by the way.
~Rags
Since I replied to your pm,I've tried ringing Dorje again at home to no avail.just that bloody answerphone.It should have been past 7 California time so I hoped he'd be home from work.
I'm worried enough to ring him at work tomorrow,but as I said lets hope for the best here,he could be out getting stoned or he might have found a sack of cash and be out "investing" it.
I think we should all keep our fingers crossed and as soon as I find out what the score is I'll post it.
slugbone
10-26-2006, 07:33 PM
Since I replied to your pm,I've tried ringing Dorje again at home to no avail.just that bloody answerphone.It should have been past 7 California time so I hoped he'd be home from work.
I'm worried enough to ring him at work tomorrow,but as I said lets hope for the best here,he could be out getting stoned or he might have found a sack of cash and be out "investing" it.
I think we should all keep our fingers crossed and as soon as I find out what the score is I'll post it.
it's good to see us opiophiles worrying about one another. this place does create solid bonds, and we all share the same one thing in common.
as addicts we all know sometimes during benders, etc..we can fall off the face of the eaarth and lose track of time. hopefully dorje's just gettin fuckked up and happy somewhere being mellow
it's good to see us opiophiles worrying about one another. this place does create solid bonds, and we all share the same one thing in common.
as addicts we all know sometimes during benders, etc..we can fall off the face of the eaarth and lose track of time. hopefully dorje's just gettin fuckked up and happy somewhere being mellow
Yeah I know man,you're hopefully right,but Dorje has a straight responsable job-hard to believe but true and I believe he's on subs.Not exactly a mix for suddenly dropping out and getting so loaded he can't even post.
So keep your fingers crossed.
Ragdoll
10-27-2006, 02:28 AM
Thanks, Nick. I can think of all sorts of reasons, but it's sure frustrating, not being able to make contact. I sure appreciate your efforts, and I'll be checking for any word you receive. For such a variety of reasons, Dorje's sudden departure just doesn't add up.
Ragdoll
10-27-2006, 02:32 AM
By the way, Nick - I can't find a PM reply from you....????
kyuss
10-27-2006, 02:37 AM
By the way, Nick - I can't find a PM reply from you....????
I just sent
you an email,Ragdoll :)
By the way, Nick - I can't find a PM reply from you....????
Sorry Sister,I did pm you,but I have the techno knowledge of a chimp.So it's failure to arrive doesn't shock me.Sorry again.I think events have passed the pm,as I say I tried to ring him at home a 7pm Cali time and got that answerphone again.So I'll try him at work 9.30 Cali time and will let you all know asap.Sorry again Rags,I'm an idiot.
Right gang,I've just got off the phone with Dorje's work and it was totaly Kafkaesque.No body alive seems to work there.I got two answerphones and what sounded like an automated operater,but in fairness,it being Cali it could have been human-it was hard to tell.
Bottom line,I don't think he's at work.I'm going to keep trying.Will report back.
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