get high-or-get laid

[JunkBombJamie]

For the past few days I have been away snowboarding. I brought a decent supply of opies, but of course I ran out before I had planned to. Yesterday, I was sitting around talking to one of my friends who doesnt use dope. We were talking about the night before and he was saying some shit about he was pissed cuz he didnt get laid. Then he said I need to get laid dammit! I was gettin kind of dopesick and said, fuck gettin laid I need to get high. He asked me if I really would rather get high than get laid and when I said yes he said I was gay or some sort of stupid comment. Part of it was cuz I was sick but even now that Im home and feeling well Im still thinking I would take a very nice shot of dope over sex, though I cant make up my mind.

So, would you rather...
-get high all day on your opies of choice-
-Or-
-have sex all day with a hot girl or guy-
... Having sex all day would be nice, but there is only so many times you can go at it. And while I feel good for a while after sex Im not exactly high per say. And getting high all day would be nice but I would probably end up nodded out all day, and it would go by in an instant. Im still leanin towards gettin high all day, but Im not completely sure.

So, whattya think..?

[nick]

Um man,we have this debate every few months and it's always a dumb question,I'm an addict......so what do you think?

[that guy]

Naturally it depends.

If its a random, drunk hookup/one night stand vs. getting high, i would take the high. Sex with random partners never appealed to me ( and I am in college, when that should be my 0MGPr10r1+y!!1).

However

if its sex with someone I with whom have a deep connection with ( this whole "love " thing that purty music keeps telling me exists) vs getting high, then I would without a doubt take the "getting laid."

[JunkBombJamie]

Sorry for the dumb question nick ! Ive never it seen on here before. I really hope I did not offend you.............................!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!>>>>>>>>>>>>>!:rolleyes:

[nick]

Sorry for the dumb question nick ! Ive never seen on here before. I really hope I did not offend you.............................!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!>>>>>>>>>>>>>!

Trust me,it takes a lot to offend me and it will be interesting to see what some of the new folks have to say.

[duck]

I feel as if I've had a decent amount of different kinds of sex, some with girls I didn't know very well and a lot with my girlfriend of three years. Each person has been very different, most of it not very good but some of it really, really great. My girlfriend is rather sexual and wants to have sex all of the time, unlike me.

I would choose dope over sex without a second thought. Hands down. If I had to choose one or the other for the rest of my life, I'd choose dope. If I could have sex with [enter amazingly beautiful sex goddess/or god for my gay homies out there] or dope, I'd choose dope.

I'm just not that into sex. I like it and all, and it's a great way to connect spiritually (wow, I don't think I've ever used the word spiritual before, I hate the thought of it, and I take it back) with a partner but I dunno, I just like dope better.

[JunkBombJamie]

yeah once you expeience opiates (ecspecialy IV heroin ) sex is definetely not as mindblowing as it used to be. Id say its the #2 ultimate rush. though Ive never shot meth and some people say that is also amazing.

[duck]

yeah once you expeience opiates (ecspecialy IV heroin ) sex is definetely not as mindblowing as it used to be. Id say its the #2 ultimate rush. though Ive never shot meth and some people say that is also amazing.

I'd put it down around 7 or 8..

1. #1 IV heroin
1.5. Massive dose of white fluff LSD on Wildfire Roller Coaster (rivals any Six Flags puss ass ride you though was dope) at Silver Dollar City--tell me someone has been to Silver Dollar City!!!?!
2. IV pharmaceutical opiates
3. IV cocaine
4. massive dose of MDMA 37 minutes after dosing
5. A quarter gram of ice meth, the really dank glass shard looking stuff from southern Missouri
6. Going 150+ MPH on a motorcycle
7. Blowin a load on a skank
8. Oversized baloon of nitrous to the dome in the middle of the Mark Twain National Forest

[youwonhundred]

Maybe its just cause I've been clean since this summer, but sex is really nice. Dunno if I could give it up forever or anything, but as things stand right now, I'd take the sex.

[chopstix]

Most people are gonna say dope - it's a junky board and opiates snuff libido, not always immediately but continued use will wear away at your libido eventually as does life and aging..

My take on it is: fuck while it's fun (if it is fun for you) - this especially holds true for guys, you only have a couple/three or so decades to make the most of those hormones, they fade after awhile and if you spend your "good" years nodded out on the couch, you may look back at your life some day and wish you had gotten your fuck on while you still had the natural hormones and gumby flexibility..

The dope isn't going anywhere, and it's easy to get when you're older.. I personally think sex can be a really, really great thing for two people to share, and I feel kinda sorry for people who don't appear to have ever gotten much from it..

I guess I just believe there is a lot more to life than DRUGS.

[ryan]

I'd rather have sex ON drugs :)

Why choose?

I've never really had a chance to have good sex when I was really high...
I tried ONE time, but it did NOT go so well..

Me and my gf at the time had been clean and we fucked in the morning (clean) then by chance came across a fentanyl patch...needless to say we both relapsed together, and decided to fuck..

Man I was so high my dick just couldn't keep it's composure...It was like I couldn't orgasm no matter how hard I tried...it kinda sucked

I would imagine tho if you have a habit and aren't super high then opiates and sex can be very enjoyable together. I would love the chance to try again some time :)

[duck]

Man I was so high my dick just couldn't keep it's composure...It was like I couldn't orgasm no matter how hard I tried...it kinda sucked

This is especially unfortunate when the other person doesn't know you're high and you're 20 years old. e m b a r r a s s i n g. There really is no way to account for other than the dope, which you can't tell her about.

[ryan]

This is especially unfortunate when the other person doesn't know you're high and you're 20 years old. e m b a r r a s s i n g. There really is no way to account for other than the dope, which you can't tell her about.

Wanna hear something even more embarassing?

The first time I ever had sex I was dopesick and the girl I was with didn't quite understand exactly what that entails...:p

I cummed the second I put it in...soooooooo embarassing...I told her though before we started messing around that I didn't feel like it, and she just went "You're not even trying!" well, I tried LOL and failed miserably.

It's funny to think back and laugh about it now, but at the time I felt like such a dumbass.

[JunkBombJamie]

Yeah, sex when your even a little sick sex is over so fast it is fuckin pathetic. Forget bein a minute man, its more like 30 seconds, then cum. Uh sorry babe. And Ive had times where I was too high to get my dick hard and that is also a terribly embarrising experience seein as how Im in my twenties. Coke seems to make it even worse for me.

[PiLL CLiNToN]

always have to get right after teh sex so sex is first then the fix

[ShamanicHaze]

I'd rather take the sex but only because it's easier to get high. Truthfully, I enjoy being high more than having sex but sex is a delicacy.

[JonnyMohawk]

get me high as a kite.... then sex doesn't matter. in fact when I'm high on opies I prefer not to have sex... its just frustrating that I cant get off :[

[Raz]

Whe i was first into gear, wivout cainin it, sex was a warn cuddly affair and then it become a not interested affair...

The best sex is when you aint got a habit, have used for a day or two and then have a mind blowin scene...

I got ma rocks off so bad once (in dat scenario) dat i fainted as i gave her da "money shot"...Dis chica was into all sorts once i educated her..Eventually she wanted to play "golden showers"...Man i hadda tell her "Raz dont play dat way"....No bitch is pissing on me, no fuckin way hosiey...

[OxiContinKing]

seems like when i have dope and aint gettin ass, I want ass, and when im gettin ass and dont have dope, i want dope.

guess im never satisfied.

mind games.

[losangeleslifer]

Most people are gonna say dope - it's a junky board and opiates snuff libido, not always immediately but continued use will wear away at your libido eventually as does life and aging..

My take on it is: fuck while it's fun (if it is fun for you) - this especially holds true for guys, you only have a couple/three or so decades to make the most of those hormones, they fade after awhile and if you spend your "good" years nodded out on the couch, you may look back at your life some day and wish you had gotten your fuck on while you still had the natural hormones and gumby flexibility..

The dope isn't going anywhere, and it's easy to get when you're older.. I personally think sex can be a really, really great thing for two people to share, and I feel kinda sorry for people who don't appear to have ever gotten much from it..

I guess I just believe there is a lot more to life than DRUGS.

This is real good for the younger guys on here. Enjoy your "mojo" while you can.

[pinn3d]

I*'d take the hot sex with a girl---- fuck---- I can go one day without dope----- actually not having the dope would probably make me horny, so the sex would def. be the option i'd go for......

[MrCharlesIV]

I'll take the dope, please. All day.

If you can't get off because of dope why blame even think about blaming it on the dope? She can take the fault. I know that's mean but, hell, maybe she'd wanna get high together after feeling self-conscious?

I'm terrible. Sorry.

:]

[PiLL CLiNToN]

Whe i was first into gear, wivout cainin it, sex was a warn cuddly affair and then it become a not interested affair...

The best sex is when you aint got a habit, have used for a day or two and then have a mind blowin scene...

I got ma rocks off so bad once (in dat scenario) dat i fainted as i gave her da "money shot"...Dis chica was into all sorts once i educated her..Eventually she wanted to play "golden showers"...Man i hadda tell her "Raz dont play dat way"....No bitch is pissing on me, no fuckin way hosiey...

hahahahaaaa I hear ya Raz ...... Chicanas into the Golden showas are reallllly freaky freeeeeeeeky ass brawds gotta admit thats some KINKYYY ASS XXX DOUBLE CERTIFTIED KINKNESS! lolz

[Narkotikon]

If I were given the choice between being given my opiate of choice to get high all day long, as high as I wanted, or to have sex with anyone (even the hottest gay porn star), I'd DEFINITELY choose the opiates over sex.

1. I'm just not into sex that much, even before I tried opiates: partly because I'm shy and it's awkward, and partly because I'm just not that sexual.

2. Opiates have killed what little sex-drive I had. And it really doesn't bother me.

3. To be honest, I have some hang-ups with sex. Not anything about being prudish. I have no problem trying different things sexually, as long as I'm comfortable with them. It's more an emotional thing. I just don't like the thought of having sex with someone that I don't care about (i.e., one night stands). I had a few when I was 20-22, but they just felt gross and dirty. I just don't want to be with someone that way unless I have feelings for them. My mind equates sex with love. I can't help it. It's too painful to have one-night stands, because I can't separate the emotions from the sex. I get too emotionally involved, and it ends badly.

4. Opiates just are so much better to me. On a scale of 1-10, I'd place a good IV morphine / heroin rush at a 10. Mind-blowing sex, or even coke-fueled sex, would be an 8 maybe.

[buc]

I been chasin' a gal lately i'd do just about anything to fuck............So if it's either or..........with this particular woman there's no question. Of course as soon as we finish...............

[runormal]

I miss the lead up to having sex with someone. Like when I have a gf and we're out for the evening and we both know when we get home that we're going to have an amazing time with one another.. you'll be looking across the room at one another and something in her eye is saying yes I know what you're thinking of doing to me and I can't wait for you to... I miss having that in my life. Now its just waving goodnight to carload of guy friends that drop me off at my house and an empty room.

I LOVE opies and when I was doing OCs I would be SO excited about getting home from work and into my bed to watch a movie that it was basically like sleeping with them. Now that I am on methadone my sex drive is a zero which scares me incase I meet someone that I would like to sleep with. If only I was on methadone in the past I've had gf complain about me wanting too much sex - if only they saw me now.

[JunkBombJamie]

I miss the lead up to having sex with someone. Like when I have a gf and we're out for the evening and we both know when we get home that we're going to have an amazing time with one another.. you'll be looking across the room at one another and something in her eye is saying yes I know what you're thinking of doing to me and I can't wait for you to... I miss having that in my life. Now its just waving goodnight to carload of guy friends that drop me off at my house and an empty room.


Yeah I agree with you here. I mean I still go on dates and get laid but it seems like there is way less emotion invloved with it or something. I dont really know how to explain it, but its as if the fact that I enjoy a shot of dope more than getting laid has made the sex not as a big of a concern. Therefore I dont get as exited about the girl and dont really try to build as deep of a connection as I would have in the past. So I am definetely on my own alot more. I guess it just has to do with the fact that heroin has made me kinda flat, emotionally speaking. On the other hand there is alot less drama and fighting about stupid shit, so that is kind of nice. I dont know where the fuck Im going here so Im gonna shut up! Is this dr. phill haha.

[ouaisOut]

Fortunately my regular fuck buddy likes to get high as much as I do. Maybe more. He's definitely been doin it longer. The dope and the coke primarily. And then the fucking. He rarely cums without the aid of his friendly right hand. Before I developed a real habit, it used to give me a bit of a complex that he wouldn't cum after hours of really great sex. It all makes sense to me now. (rolls eyes)

Now, we see each other less frequently because of a geographical change, so it's less regular. Now, I get excited about the fact that when he comes up from SoCal we'll be getting high in an all-out indulgent orgy of drugs. The sex seems like a slightly interesting thing to do in the interim between getting high.

Hmmmm, I guess my vote is for opiates over sex. Bit sad really.

And I'm another one who apprecites the freaky, but is not feeling the golden showers AT ALL. I've never been able to get into that. The piss. Don't really care for it. But each to his own, the habit, the jack rabbit.

[duck]

I miss the lead up to having sex with someone. Like when I have a gf and we're out for the evening and we both know when we get home that we're going to have an amazing time with one another.. you'll be looking across the room at one another and something in her eye is saying yes I know what you're thinking of doing to me and I can't wait for you to... I miss having that in my life. Now its just waving goodnight to carload of guy friends that drop me off at my house and an empty room.

I LOVE opies and when I was doing OCs I would be SO excited about getting home from work and into my bed to watch a movie that it was basically like sleeping with them. Now that I am on methadone my sex drive is a zero which scares me incase I meet someone that I would like to sleep with. If only I was on methadone in the past I've had gf complain about me wanting too much sex - if only they saw me now.

Solid post.

[mikey5string]

if i had to choose for the rest of my life, id choose sex.

[OxiContinKing]

if i had to choose for the rest of my life, id choose sex.

Now there is a true, hardcore junky.

;)

[Restharrow]

The dope isn't going anywhere, and it's easy to get when you're older.. I personally think sex can be a really, really great thing for two people to share, and I feel kinda sorry for people who don't appear to have ever gotten much from it..
This is what I was thinking, but I don't have Chop's gift of communication / philosophy. The older u get, the easier it is to get opiates.

I took Percodan (oxycodone and aspirin) in early 1970's after removal of 4 impacted wisdom teeth. I only took it a couple of days -- and stopped taking it long before pain subsided -- because it interferred with masterbating to Penthouse magazine. I would have passed up a tractor trailer load of Oxycodone when I was 19 years old, just to get my hands on a tall slender blond for 1 night.

When I finally had a real lover (not just a 1 nighter) I would not have passed up sex with her for any drug. (We did NOT consider Pot a drug back then).

Like I said, I don't have Chop's silver tounge -- he said it better.

Will

[sidman]

Pill Clinto....you took the words right outta my mouth.
Get laid then get high then get laid some more n try to make her scream baby SCREAM!!!
My girl and I have the most messed up relationship and I'm sure we arent the only ones.
You see...she tricks for her money. I don't like it but what the hell can I do? Short of doing something I would only regret I cant do anything about it. So, when we have sex its not like I'm the trick and I take the time to make her cum. She makes her tricks use condoms even though they complain and at times it has really made me worry about "our" safety.
She just got out of jail and she didnt want to trick until one night we got into a hell of a fight. I was low on money and she wanted to spend it. "No way" I said because it was the rent money.
Anyway,I ended up tellin her to get the hell outta my house and she did. Then she went back to doing what she knows.....trickin.
I tried to forget about her and shes tried to forget about me but its not working that way.
We love each other like a curse loves a witch......what can we do about it?
She told me yesterday she is going to go get help and get on the subs and go to groups.....I almost hit the floor with shock and I am happy she is going to try .
The sex we have together is amazing. We are hooked on each other. The bad part is we are both addicts. I'm 39 she is 26. We've been together on and off since she turned eighteen.
We have sex before and after gettin' high but I prefer the BEFORE sex more than the AFTER sex because at least we both get off.
Gettin' laid is sometimes alot harder for a guy than a woman in my experience so if someone asked me "Would you rather get laid or get high" I'd say "Well,where is the girl?" if there is no girl then of course I'd choose to get high. If there was a girl then I'd see if I could get laid then if I did, I'd get high AFTER the sex. Either way.....I'd get high no matter what.
I'm an addict !!

[taj]

I've always sort of been like a guy about sex. I've had plenty of partners and a lot of incredible mindblowing sex but not that many one night stands, probably 'cause I make a good fuck buddy and I don't get all needy and weird. Sex as also something that I got a high off of too. Afterwards my body and brain won't quite cooperate, I used to say sex was my drug of choice.I used to drink pretty heavily and live at the bar when I was a little younger.

I haven't had sex for about 6 months and this is the longest I've ever gone. In the old days I'd just go out or call someone and satisfy my urges but these days I feel like I can't be bothered. Too much effort. Maybe it's cause I'm a little older now(30) and the whole bar scene is all early twenties and I don't want to be that girl who can't grow up. I go out and find all these young guys (21-23) hot and then I realize I'm not that age anymore.

I haven't had a serious bf in about 3 years. Sometimes I wish I had a cool hot guy to hang out with who likes me and understands my life and where I've been. Not to toot my own horn but I'm single, don't have kids, from 'away' lived all over and consider myself attractive and smart and I think guys in my area have a hard time dealing with all that. I'm also pretty independent and self sufficient and I think guys have a need to feel like they can "take care" of somebody and that's not really me. I also have health and mental health problems that I don't really want to discuss and I sometimes come across as being cold.

So right now I'm pretty happy sitting at home with my drugs and my dog. Even though I live right in town and I can see all the bars from my house. My town of about 6,000 has 5 bars right in town and a couple outside of the downtown area.. I do get lonely sometimes but I know I can still feel lonely even when I'm in a relationship with someone.

One funny thing is that I must have some internal heroin radar because the guy I set my sights upon almost always is or was a heroin user. It's a weird internal thing b/c it's not like they seem to have anything in common on the surface, it's something I find out about and it's just kinda funny. Yep, my typical type...secret heroin user. lol