junky love connection

[candyshop]

where is the forum for meeting cute junky singles?
just had the best tea ever -with the stinky formula and itty bitty ones-wow

[antigonemuse]

Junky love,now thats cute... :p an interesting subject to focus on... a junky relationship... :D

Thank goodness for my Neffery! Its the best when we learn to share :O) ;)

Peace

[SomniGod]

Glad you had a good time using the 'stink method'....it does me right every day...all day!! Anyway, as for a 'junky-love connection,' man, that's like the blind humping the blind...I mean, c'mon, it's hard enough dealing with 1 monkey...imagine providing for 2!!! Unless I find a sugar-momma junky! Then, I'm all for it!!!


~S~

[shaunclo]

Glad you had a good time using the 'stink method'....it does me right every day...all day!! Anyway, as for a 'junky-love connection,' man, that's like the blind humping the blind...I mean, c'mon, it's hard enough dealing with 1 monkey...imagine providing for 2!!! Unless I find a sugar-momma junky! Then, I'm all for it!!!

ROMFLMAO!!!!!

[antigonemuse]

i got my man high at first so he would understand and relate... Ya know?

Now... welll... I wonder if my stash don't keep him around

LOL

[Saceman1]

Jeez, you folks have had relationships with non-users? My congratulations. As to junklove, anyone seen the skit "Seven Years in a Long-Sleave Shirt" by that ex-neighbours star? Provides a surprisiingly good insight into the whole fslling in love with a person and powder at the same time. Personally, heroin will always be a big part of my life, whether I'm currently using or not, and I can't imagine not sharing that commonality with my partner.

[Paregoric Kid]

most addicts I've known that had relationships with non-addicts usually end up with the non-addict ending the relationship because of the others addiction. relationships where both people are junkies usually end up bad too. one person leaches off the other or they both hide drugs from each other and one day someone will leave when they can fuck a better connection.
most addicts I've known were not generally social people. you don't need people when you have opiates.

"excess consumption of narcotics inhibits the release of endogenous opioids normally induced by social interaction with friends and family. By diminishing the craving for human companionship, the addict substitutes one form of opioid addiction for another. Thus junkies are usually "selfish.""

[Saceman1]

Jeez, Sid, that's a pretty dark view! Did someone have a bad experienced?

My last two relationships also invloved a mutual love of opiates - 4yrs and 6yrs. 1st is now mt best friend. Personally smack is too fun not to want to share - the experience, anyway.

[ZodiacKiller]

Neither my wife or I were hooked on the opies when we met 5 years ago--we fell into this thing together, and since we've been addicted and trying to quit, we've definitely had our rollercoaster ride of kicking/chipping/wd together. It's kinda felt like the 2 of us against the world at times, and we have each other to lean on when it gets bad. We were best friends before the dope, and we are stronger friends now. Oh, sure, our sex life has dropped off a bit, but that's gonna happen with opiates. I can't imagine this without her, and I know she feels the same way.

It's kinda funny, we were married in Sept of '05, and looking at our wedding pix, man o man, if anyone knew...We were totally thrown on 100mg of Oxy each, even during the ceremony, and it was a beautiful thing. It went perfect, not a dry eye in the house, and it was one of the best days ever. And I have no regrets about being on dope during it, either. I imagine withdrawing during one's wedding would really suck, heheh...

ZodiacKiller

[doctor diesel]

It's kinda funny, we were married in Sept of '05, and looking at our wedding pix, man o man, if anyone knew...We were totally thrown on 100mg of Oxy each, even during the ceremony, and it was a beautiful thing. It went perfect, not a dry eye in the house, and it was one of the best days ever. And I have no regrets about being on dope during it, either. I imagine withdrawing during one's wedding would really suck, heheh...

ZodiacKiller


Full respek to you, Zodie! Wish my wedding had been half as cool.

Doc D

[malefiacrum]

I have been with my gf for 5 years, pretty much married, hehe. She has never used...well, ANYTHING in her whole life, I on the other hand have been using one thing or another for 15 years....and the relationship couldn't be better. It's like ying/yang, both people in a relationship can't be the recless ones, ...that's how I look at it.

[Kallie]

Sorry. I should have just kept my mouth shut. My dad always use to say "Brain in gear, before mouth in motion."

[SomniGod]

Yeah...as fly as I am....seems that once the well dries up, so does my love life! So I say fuck em if they can't take a joke! I mean, I date really hot girls.....my opinion = hot....my standards = high...so for real, I just seem to pick chicks who are DOWN, I mean, what I need is a nice girl, no dope, no fukkin anybody with a bag, that type of girl, but what I wind up bringin into my life are chicks who ...well lets put it this way, my current GF...comes over...asks me to buy her a bago yayo,... I tell her no...so she asks my fukkin neighbor! I told him to go ahead and hit it! Sure as shit....she gave it up...for a 20 !!! haha....that's kinda funny to me! Who's laughin now, baby! Oh yeah...she fukkin 18 yrs old too!!! oops! She thinks she's all playa and shit!!! "excuse me, ma'am.....we forgot to tell you about this nasty thing in this world called a DOUBLE_STANDARD!" Ya see, baby, it's like a double-edged sword...damned if you do....sprung if you don't! So while you think you are playin mutta suckas cuz they give you gas money and coke for head and (I must say) a NICE piece of ass... hell girl, can't you see that we are winning?!?! I mean, you give up the greatest thing you have to offer (I'm sorry ...that sounds mean, but i never claimed to be nice...just real!---and this goes for this girl, not all)...and for what... a quick up till you start jonesing again... pobrecita.... hah...Do what u do , baby, and I'll call ya when I need to call ya!

I'm in the beginning of day2 on cold turkey...and writing all that out actually made me forgot how shitty I was feeling for a few minutes! nuff 4 now


~S~

[skeletontea]

I've though of posting something similar as a poll along the lines of "If you had the choice, would you rather date an opiate user, or a non-user?" I don't think I'd want to date another opiate user, because I just know we'd both end up using much more frequently, then things would go bad, especially if part of the relationship was a collective stash, that would ruin everything.

[shaunclo]

I just dont see how having 2 junkies in a relationship could work, unless both are very well off. Otherwise, when you are running low I can forsee bickering going on, "You got a bigger hit than me last time, its my turn to get the bigger hit." and so on.....Maybe its just me. When Im using junk, I tend to be such a selfish little asshole, ITS ALL MINE....MINE....MINE!!!!

[ZodiacKiller]

Full respek to you, Zodie! Wish my wedding had been half as cool.
Doc D

Thanks for the props, Doc. Sorry to hear your day wasn't all that you'd hoped....

Shaunclo, as far as 2 junkies in a relationship, well, maybe we're luckier than most. We are very functional addicts, no question. I've got my own home-restoration business and play in a somewhat well-known band, from which I receive royalties (we released 5 albums worldwide, toured like motherfuckers all through the 90s, and built the thing up quite a bit), and my wife has a good paying job from which we both get good health insurance.

So, supply is not the issue, we can always cop from a number of sources---in fact that was part of the problem which led us to quit in Dec: we had so much shit in the house at any given time that we were always making excuses to use on any given day. "oh, it's Monday--work sucked, let's get happy" (what we call it), or, "well, we're going to the movies, it'll be much better if we're happy", and then you are full-on addicted. And we're not stupid, we could see it coming, and our tolerance went up, up, up. I mean, when you've got 15 OC 80s, 55 OC 40s, a bunch of Methadose 40mg wafers, and a bundle of heroin just sitting there, tell me who's not gonna use everyday? I'm not trying to boast, we just felt that it's better to get while the getting is good, y'know?

We spent over 20 grand on opiates last year, easy.

So now we're trying to be Weekend Warriors, and stick to chipping. Part of our plan is never to cop more than we're gonna use in a weekend, and never to use during the week anymore. We'll see if this works--we may just end up back where we were, and have to deal with all the bullshit all over again. That's what seems to happen to most people, and we are under no delusion that we're better than anybody, so we'll see....

ZodiacKiller

[shaunclo]

Thanks for the props, Doc. Sorry to hear your day wasn't all that you'd hoped....

Shaunclo, as far as 2 junkies in a relationship, well, maybe we're luckier than most. We are very functional addicts, no question. I've got my own home-restoration business and play in a somewhat well-known band, from which I receive royalties (we released 5 albums worldwide, toured like motherfuckers all through the 90s, and built the thing up quite a bit), and my wife has a good paying job from which we both get good health insurance.

So, supply is not the issue, we can always cop from a number of sources---in fact that was part of the problem which led us to quit in Dec: we had so much shit in the house at any given time that we were always making excuses to use on any given day. "oh, it's Monday--work sucked, let's get happy" (what we call it), or, "well, we're going to the movies, it'll be much better if we're happy", and then you are full-on addicted. And we're not stupid, we could see it coming, and our tolerance went up, up, up. I mean, when you've got 15 OC 80s, 55 OC 40s, a bunch of Methadose 40mg wafers, and a bundle of heroin just sitting there, tell me who's not gonna use everyday? I'm not trying to boast, we just felt that it's better to get while the getting is good, y'know?

We spent over 20 grand on opiates last year, easy.

So now we're trying to be Weekend Warriors, and stick to chipping. Part of our plan is never to cop more than we're gonna use in a weekend, and never to use during the week anymore. We'll see if this works--we may just end up back where we were, and have to deal with all the bullshit all over again. That's what seems to happen to most people, and we are under no delusion that we're better than anybody, so we'll see....

ZodiacKiller

Well I must say Zodiac,
You do sound like you know what your doing, and that your not thinking that everything is just perfect and hunky-dory (sp) I respect that, you dont sound like you know it all either. That was a very well written post. I would have to say that I MOST DEFINITELY do envy you and your wife. I hope you both accomplish exactly what it is you plan to do. I hope this on everyone, cause everyone here who has had to battle the addiction from time to time knows how fuckin hard and draining the whole thing is. I guess in my case, the biggest problem I had with using was not having enough money to keep up with my habit. It was easy at first, cause a bag can last you a looooooonnnngggg time. But sooner or later you start using more than your bringing home and it turns into a job rather than a hobby.

I never had a partner to share my "good times" with, if I wasnt so self-centered, I bet that would be some really great times being able to get high with your significant other. Everyone who has been blessed with someone that has the same ineterests as you, enjoy those moments people. I will just sit in the shadows wondering what went wrong......just kidding.....I guess:rolleyes:

[SomniGod]

I hope this on everyone, cause everyone here who has had to battle the addiction from time to time knows how fuckin hard and draining the whole thing is.


Amen, brotha Shaunclo!

Amen!


~S~

[candyshop]

i really cannot date straights -i find large pupils terribly unattractive

[marblehead]

My wife doesn't use and I never hid my deamons from her,but for some reason she loves me. she is super hot,men follow her home and i have to chase them away. She gets on me a little( its good ammo for fights) When she had a baby she would even save me the perks they were giving her for me, also whenever she has dentil work she knows not to come home w/out a scrip(what a girl, last time demerol)As long as the bills get paid(she handles the money and I get the leftovers) all is well I just have a knack for making money on the side to keep my prob low key

[shaunclo]

i really cannot date straights -i find large pupils terribly unattractive

That is the funniest hing I have read all day long...........

[candyshop]

why,thank you-glad to get a giggle

[poppy]

Candyshop ,Quote 'i really cannot date straights -i find large pupils terribly unattractive'
I agree with Shaunclo this is the funniest thing I've read in ages!!! Thanks for the laugh!

[doctor diesel]

I've though of posting something similar as a poll along the lines of "If you had the choice, would you rather date an opiate user, or a non-user?"

How about a poll that asks: "If you had the choice, would you rather have a partner... or opiates?" I have my answer ready, brethren. ;)

Your Doctor

[THEPAINTER1960]

My old lady does'nt use any recreational drugs at all. And i respect her for that we used to before methadone. AND of course we still were able to keep everything together. And i respect anyone who does.